Learn from my mistakes
Observe and Conform — Don’t Get Uniform
We are shaped as much by our missteps as our victories. This is not a guidebook, but a collection of hard-won wisdom gathered from walking too fast, speaking too soon, and trying to lead before I truly listened. I offer it not as a prescription, but as an invitation to reflect.
Are you pretending to read a book?
Movies or books—which should come first? Explore how each medium shapes our imagination, time, relationships, and understanding of stories. Don't pretend you've read the book just because you've seen the movie!
From Pages to Popcorn: Books That Became Movies
Open-air cinemas, roasted peanuts, and starry skies—my love for movies began in childhood. This post reflects on the magic of storytelling as I explore books that became movies in 2014 and how both mediums shape how we experience stories.
Doubting the Heart, Trusting the Shepherd
As the new year begins, I wrestle with hope, doubt, and what it means to trust God. Even when my mind feels uncertain, my heart longs to believe. Here's how I’m learning to move forward with faith—one day at a time.
Grace in Every Verse: Inspired by Scripture and Song
What happens when Scripture meets songwriting? A worship workshop reminded me that the most powerful lyrics begin with the Word. Here’s the story behind my new song “Grace-Filled,” rooted in Ephesians 2:8–9.
Open Hands or Closed Fists? Releasing Control to God
Are you holding your relationships with an open hand—or a clenched fist? Discover how fear, control, and love often collide in everyday life—and how letting go brings peace, freedom, and trust in God’s plan.
Bearing One Another’s Burdens: The Gospel in Our Pain
Suffering can feel empty when we don’t understand its purpose. But when we lay down our lives for others, we exemplify Christ. This reflection explores how suffering may be the very cure our souls need.
You Are God's Enemy—Until Love Finds You
We often think our enemies are other people. But what if the greatest enemy of God… is us? This honest, soul-searching blog explores how God transforms His enemies into His children—by love.
How Do You React to Conflict? Understanding Fight, Flight, and Finding a Better Way
When conflict knocks, how do you answer? Do you fight back, shut down, or walk away? Whether we react with anger or avoidance, understanding our instinctive responses can lead us to healthier relationships. This post explores practical paths from conflict to collaboration—and why choosing "our way" is better than simply meeting halfway.
What Does It Really Mean to Love God?
We often confuse loving God with checking spiritual boxes—church attendance, prayer, service, tithing. But love is not measured by routine; it's revealed in relationship. This blog explores what it means to love God deeply—not from duty, but from devotion.
The Four Stages of Loving God: Lessons from Bernard of Clairvaux
How do we grow in our love for God? In a world that often confuses love with self-interest, the timeless wisdom of Bernard of Clairvaux offers a map for the soul’s journey—beginning with self-love and leading to pure devotion. His four stages of love show us how grace transforms even our most self-centered motives into holy affection.
Living for Eternity: Trading Earthly Legacy for Eternal Purpose
In a world obsessed with leaving a legacy, what if the truest purpose is found not in what we leave behind—but in what we surrender? The Christian life isn't about spotlight or success. It's about pouring our lives into what outlasts us: eternity. This blog explores how dying to self actually leads to the most meaningful kind of life—one hidden in Christ and rich in eternal value.